Here are some highlights from the conversation:į*ck it, I’ll be the one dude to be honest, yeah I watch some gay porn. Even fewer straights admitted to their own gay porn habits. Some condemned him as a closet-case, while others kept an open mind on the subject. The responses from other redditers were varied. I am happy with myself and my gf is fully aware of this. I have a very high sex drive and perhaps a smattering of sexual addictions. I view it all but do not consider myself gay. Many people today consider transsexual porn to be primarily of interest to straight males. It is also my guess that the stigma of doing so is far less than it used to be. It is my guess that a lot of straight guys consume gay porn. The original poster had this to say about his own experiences: In response to the question “ Do any straight guys watch gay porn as a fetish rather than an aspect of your sexual orientation“, a handful of internet users offered up their own experiences. So when a thread asking heterosexual men about their interest in same sex imagery popped up on Reddit’s AskMen page, my interest was certainly piqued.
That’s all well and good, but it isn’t too often that you hear straight men talking about their love of gay porn. Everyone has a different relation to their desires and everyone expresses those relations through unique identities, which are far more varied than the categories generally offered to us by society. I think there are a lot of straight men with similar feelings as me, but they’d never admit it.If my generally-useless MA degree in Liberal Studies (with a focus on Gender and Sexuality) taught me anything it is that sexuality is fluid. “I just don’t think it’s that common to see a straight man voice an interest in gay porn. I honestly think she’d kill me if she knew it involved bi and gay porn.” Scott is equally secretive. Gunther, in fact, worries a lot about his wife finding out: “She’d castrate me if she knew I read erotic stories and watch porn. That said, none of the guys I interviewed are out about their guy-on-guy porn consumption. There wouldn’t be much direction needed.” Guys also know what guys like and what drives them wild, so I think about that as well. “I found myself obsessed with how perfect some of their cocks are and how I wish mine looked that good. “Male mutual masturbation is hot, and something I really enjoy watching,” he explains. Scott, a 38-year-old from West Virginia, says his interest started when he was 12 or 13, when he and a buddy would watch porn and jerk off underneath their blankets. Other men tell me they get turned on by looking at another guy’s dick. Which kind of made it more interesting to me now.” “When and where I grew up, interest in porn was a huge taboo, and gay/bi porn could have gotten you killed. One story led to another, and then to porn clips, a place I never thought I’d go,” he says. The erotic story that came up was a bi story, and I was surprised at my arousal. “I did an internet search for a name of a drag racer, Jim Head. Sixty-one-year-old Gunther, a retiree in Miami, discovered he was interested in gay porn by accident. So yes, straight women are super-into guys fooling around, but does male-on-male porn have the same allure to straight men? As far as we’ve come on gender and sexual identity issues, there’s still a serious “no-homo” presence in the straight-guy community. While there’s nothing wrong with domination if done right, sometimes the line between domination and being demeaning can get blurred.” Meanwhile, in a lot - not all but definitely a lot - of straight porn, there’s this idea that someone has to be demeaned, and generally that’s the female party. “Watching gay porn feels like you’re watching hot people having hot consenting sex. I feel like what appealed to me was the general lack of misogyny,” says Alisha, a 34-year-old from Texas.
“I identify as a straight women, but in my early 20s, I discovered I enjoyed gay porn. Breaking things down further, the most popular gay subcategories women enjoy are bareback, big dick and “straight guys” (adding “straight guys” to my search terms right now).